A Letter abt "Love is 35%,35%,30" "WHAT IS THAT!?" part 2

So...after reading part 1.. Now U feel helpless, U feel tt Love is so uncontrollable, it doesn even mean tt when U hv done Ur best, U will be justly rewarded. U feel that Ur life is spun out of Ur hands, U feel tt the power of Ur decisions hv weakened, U feel tt Ur abilities hv become limited.
What Happened!?

I may hv an explanation for U. N tt is "Well, U r not doing Ur report or Ur project nor r U in any business deal, U r in Love." Yup U r in Love n Love is a v intimate kind of Relationship. It brings 2 ppl to become 1 pair. BUT U r still U, Ur partner is still Ur Partner. A Relationship is not meant to destroy the Individuality of both parties. In fact a Healthy Love Relationship shd Compliment tt Individuality n tt Individuality shd in return build up the Relationship. N for healthy Individuality to come true, there is a need for Freedom (Free Will). Yup U hv Ur free will to choose N Ur Partner has tt equal right too.
It takes 2 to dance, n it takes free will to dance beautifully. U wld not wan to dance with a puppet wld U, what meaning is there?

So U ask y cant U do more than 35%? Well, then let me ask U,
"If U do more than 35%, aren U burdening Urself with what U shd not be burdening Urself with? Is tt fair to U?"
"IF U do more than 35%, aren U also taking some % from Ur partner, n since Ur partner's 35% includes his/her Free Will Of Choice, aren U also at the same time, taking away his/her Freedom to Choose?"

So what now? R U still feeling just as helpless despite after reading all tt. I wld, until I hv understood something n I wld like to recommend this to U.
"Do Ur best to dance Ur 35%, n then just Let Go."
Yes do Ur best n let go of the remaining. Besides can U actually ensure tt U perfectly score tt 35% of Urs? Can U reli do tt, r U so perfect? If U cant even do Ur part perfectly well, then do U think U shd meddle with the part of Ur Partner n the part of Affinity? Then y not channel Ur energy n focus on doing Ur 35% to Ur best. N just let Ur Partner hv some free space to play his/her part n let Affinity hv its room to do its magic. Dun get me wrong, I m not telling U to "heck care" abt Ur Partner n abt Affinity, but I telling U to FOCUS on playing Ur part with Ur best n give room to Ur Partner n Affinity to play their parts.

Be fair to Urself, dun overstretch n overburden n exhaust Urself. Be fair to Ur partner, give him/her the floor space which he/she needs to dance.